Wednesday, January 28, 2009

WHO SET THE RULES ??

Yest paper, there was a write up on gays are seeking help in relationship problems. In 1 part of the report, the consellors mention that mostly is arguments over gender roles among the same sex couple.

It mention that one might be the breadwinner while the other does housework at home.

The breadwinner might ask the homemaker:" Y am i the onli one earning money ?"

The question here i want to ask is ..... Which idiot decide who to stay home and be houseman , and who the one going out to work ??? Both cannot work and then do housework together meh ??? It doesn't make any sense at all ............

Another counsellor said that abt a year ago, a gay male client in his 20s came for counselling partly because of the relationship toubles. He was depressed, suffered from crying spells and could only sleep 3 to 4 hrs a nite.

It seem that he is dating a man in his 20s , for abt a year. But he felt insecure abt the relationship. Just because his partner like to parties , while he spent most of his time at home. The 2 didn't stay together and the guy felt that his parther didn't spend enough time with him.Nos ex for a few months. To rub salts into the wound, the guy is paying for his partner expensive life style because he earn more than his parther.

HELLO !!!! HELLO !!! I m more mad here. The choice is your. U can choose to change a bit. U can dun pay for it. It make the matter look so stupid leh. To me, It like a gold digger loh .. If u say they both stay together, u pay most of the things for the house, i got nothing to say lah .. But his expensive lifestyle?? I dun get it .. So mean wat, If he want a car, u buy also lah ???It take 2 hands to clap hor ...... Aiyo, Might as well pay me to counselling u .....

Wat make me dulan is .................

This women by the name Mrs toh mention that lensian relationships are mor stable than thoso between gay man, because women tend to be better at communicating their emotional needs to their partners.

MY FUCKING MIDDLE FINGERS IS POINTING UP !!!!

This is bullshit .... Some les also got a lot of problems in relationship loh .. Have she wonder that there are sooo many f=gays around in singapore. Whoever she didn't get to see one should be thoso in a long long relationship one loh .. At least, i didn't get to see one ....

Sister, Mine going to be 6 years liao ... The part abt communicating the emotional needs to the partner one, We are still working on it but ... So far so good !!!!!!! *faint*faint*faint *


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