Everyone story

Which is more heart pain ?

Someone u which for 16 years decided to leave for someone he met for a few days during his trip ?

Or

Husband filing for divorced cause he found someone else but u r no better in anyway . U had a bf way b4 u sign the marriage paper n u been telling yourself in 5 years time .. U get divorced but somehow your n husband beat u first . Thru out , u make no effort to chase him back n now he finly said out wat he want n u r heart break .

Above story is all truth . Way to long to write it all out. . I just feel the pain .