LOVE?? MONEY??
We had a long talk today ....Finally after so long..she been busy with her stuff and so do i.We were just wondering ... In a relationship.. is love or money come first?? If yr gf is strap with financial problems .. would u go all the way to help her as much as u can or would u just leave it to her to settle it.How much would u able to help and decided that enough is enough?? Would u feel that it a burden to u but still decided that i m a men and that somehow i should be able to help her?? do u help because u love her or was it just that u need to have the 'face' in u?? How would u feel that u gf is a grad and u are not so she can't be seem to be smarter than u?? And u feel that it a burden that she smarter than u??We need to have answers to the above question ... would appreciate that someone can help us .....
To me, if u reli love someone ...it doean't matter that weather she/he is smart,handsome,pretty or rich .. it the feeling that care ...and she/he is somebody that are willing to share yr problem and dun see u as a burden.Knowledge is suppose to be share .. not to prove one or who is smarter ... everyone is individual .... that should not be a problem to either one of u regarding anything ........ I believe that someone who reli love u is the person who u able to see what u can plan for the future with together .... someone who able to see long term ..... being a selfish lover dun get u anywhere.
Do u ever need a reason to break up ???
Good friend is a grad ...i have no problem communicate with him. YES, we do think differently but we try to work things out when there is different.. arugement dun get u anywhere ... it only at time i m trying to b paranoid .... (i'm sorry,good friend) ................................................
Good friend is still not feeling well.. we were suppose to meet up today .. he is tired after work. It ok, we do need our own space at time and i m glad to spend my day with Nini.. Love is not everything .. it hard to walk out one and is even harder to go in to another. Every relationship is a lesson ... Learn from the mistake .. ............................... ........ ............. .........
PS: Nini, as a friend .. i can only give u advice and guide u thru this rough path. In the end, u are the only one that control yr happiness .... whatever it is, u always have my suppose ...
Mdm jinah, thank for leaving yr coment... syah and i are fine . hope to see u soon ...